5 Ideas for Creating New Traditions with Your Adult "Kids"

November 13, 2023

5 Ideas for Creating New Traditions with Your Adult "Kids" 


Empty nesters, this one’s especially for you! If your nest is still full, though, don’t worry, there’s plenty of ideas for you, too. Read on!
Are your kids heading off to college, moving out of the house, or starting families of their own? You may be wondering how you’ll be able to maintain that all-important connection with your grown children now that they’ve flown the nest, or are starting to flex those wings.

One of the most worthwhile and rewarding experiences you can share with your children is the gift of travel. If you’re looking for some new traditions for this next phase of life, here are some of our suggestions to spark ideas for creating fresh family rituals with your adult kids.

1. Celebrations of Achievement

While a backyard gathering or fancy dinner might be a fine way to celebrate your child’s academic or professional achievements, a faraway adventure is just the way to level up your accolade. Whether they’re graduating from high school, college, or landing their first internship or apprenticeship, a special getaway is a novel way to applaud their accomplishments and the perfect excuse to spend quality time together before they take the next big step in their lives.

2. Culinary Expeditions

Food just tastes better when you eat it with family. Traveling to destinations with mouth-watering food scenes allows you to savor the local flavors and explore new ways to appreciate something we do every day. Experiences such as taking a cooking class in a local home, sniffing and sipping tastes of wine or whiskey, and venturing out to local food markets are just the tip of the iceberg for how to explore a new destination together through your senses. Plan to dine at world-renowned restaurants and broaden your horizons with new-to-you culinary delights sure to tantalize your taste buds . And you can visit some sights unrelated to food, too, if that’s your thing. *wink*

3. Birthday Escapes

A milestone birthday is a wonderful opportunity to check off destinations on your travel bucket list. Whether you book it as a surprise for your kids or ask them to join the planning process, it’s sure to bring you and your children closer together. Pro tip: book a paparazzi style photo session to capture candid shots that make for the most authentic memories that you can relive again and again for years to come.

4. Cultural Experiences

Traveling to new destinations with your grown children is an enriching experience , as it stimulates conversation and encourages a well-rounded adulthood. Immersing yourselves in culture and participating in rituals and festivities firsthand will shine a whole new light on traveling. An easy place to start is by choosing destinations known for their vibrant celebrations, such as the Carnival of Venice in Italy, the Tulip & Flower Festival in the Keukenhof gardens of the Netherlands, Oktoberfest in Germany, or the Festival of San Fermín in Spain (also known as the running of the bulls).

5. Heritage Travel

Make it a real big family affair and invite the extended family, too! Like a mini reunion, traveling with your parents and your children, and even your grandparents, may be a once in a lifetime opportunity. Selecting a destination that traces your family’s heritage can further strengthen your bonds as you step foot on the same land as your ancestors. Learning about your familial roots alongside those closest to you is the definition of special. Plus, think of all the fun memories and anecdotes everyone will bring home and reminisce about during your next family gathering. It’s a win-win.

Need some suggestions to get your wheels turning?

Here are some of our top recommendations and destinations for your multi-generational trip.

River Cruising

If you revel in being spoiled with top-of-the-line customer service while traveling, then river cruising could be the perfect option for you and your adult kids. A river cruise offers something for everyone: fine dining, a variety of excursions and activities, luxury amenities, and more. Experience every moment together, or split up during the day, then regroup for dinner to swap stories. We at Nova Vista recommend river cruising for families with children aged 20+, but most ages are welcome aboard (varies based on cruise line and itinerary).

Iceland

Iceland is an incredible destination for those who love to get outside and be active together. From caves to fjords, Iceland has so much to offer. Plan a visit to some of their national parks, embark on seafaring excursions, or schedule a glacier hike with some of the country’s most knowledgeable guides. You and your kids will leave Iceland with a newfound appreciation for the country and its residents. Pro tip: plan your trip during the Northern Lights season, roughly September to March. We recommended this destination for families with teenagers and up.

Croatia

For a mix of nature and UNESCO world heritage cities, Croatia is a top destination for families seeking a variety of cultural and conservational activities. Arrange a private walking tour of the old city of Dubrovnik, charter a boat off the coast of Split or Trogir, or visit the enchanting wineries in Zagreb. Plus, Croatia is a prime location for movie and TV buffs alike. If there are any Game of Thrones fans in your group, consider a tour to visit some of their most recognizable filming locations!

Adults Only Ocean Cruise or All-Inclusive Resort

Booking a cruise or spending time at an all-inclusive resort may be just the trip for your recent grad or to celebrate a milestone birthday. Whether you opt to board a cruise ship or book a week (or two!) at an all-inclusive resort, either option allows for flexibility to plan excursions, enjoy activities and entertainment, and don’t forget about the amazing dining options. If you prefer to lounge by a pool or beach with a good book or board game, there is a cabana ready with your family’s name on it.

What are some of your family’s dream destinations?


Get in touch to let us know!

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